Fetishes (Charms). Every fetish is the actual replacement of the sexual object, so sexual intercourse with a fetish or attraction to him symbolizes the rejection of a real desire sexuality with an existing "live" object. The exception is when the surrogate is already a fetish object in connection with any real problems of the individual, for example, in spinal patients. If it is impossible to find a partner fetish can be a means to achieve orgasm or masturbation.