See an ashtray filled with cigarette butts - a dirty gossip.
To kiss the person unpleasant to you. It is impossible to refuse.
To see or use an ashtray in your dream, suggests that you are trying to rid yourself of former feelings/memories and your old ways. It symbolizes relationships that have been extinguished and no longer intact. Alternatively, it may be related to feelings of anxieties or connected to your smoking habit, especially if you are trying to quit.