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The interpretation of the dream «Having sex»

Loff’s dream book

Dreams, which featured sex and sexual connotation search for interpreters of dreams is something akin to fun. Most do not even have to search long. Love, flirting, sexual desire and satisfaction, night rendezvous in a bizarre twists of dreams - a very frequent visitors.

Long enough for the main approach to the study and interpretation of dreams is to look for sexual connotation. To a certain extent this can be explained by a significant contribution to this area of ​​Sigmund Freud. Still searching for meaning in dreams associated with sex, can be quite complex. Scientific studies suggest significant differences in how the dream of sex for men and women. And yet, when all is said and done, almost all the sex in your fantasies.

As the statistics, at least 12% of men and 4% of women devoted to the topic of sex dreams. This is broadly consistent with the reality of sexual desire, because men are a lot more women are concerned about it. So, J. William Damhoff gave the following details about the manifestation of sex in dreams (the book, "Finding meaning in dreams") - men involved in sex - 93%, watching sex - 7%; women - participate in sex - 68%, observation - 32%.

These data suggest that women in dreams with sexual coloration characteristic to separate themselves from what is happening, while the men identify themselves with the participants. This can be important for the recognition of the fact that men, especially boys, often reach orgasm during sleep than the weaker sex. In addition, it explains the conflicts associated with the taboo good / bad girls who are in many women.

Also, it is important to figure out the meaning of sexual imagery and characters that often break into our dreams. In his childhood, and later life sexuality hidden behind a veil of secrecy, so the subconscious tends to visualize the idea of ​​it. In this development of thought has made a significant contribution to the creation of Freud's theory of personality.

Freud in the subject of sexual coloration of dreams did about the same thing was done by Henry Ford for an internal combustion engine. Dreams sexual content suddenly started dreaming everything, everywhere. As a result, a certain portion of the educated society felt cool to the theory of the psychoanalyst. Until now, many scientists wonder whether in fact Freud to the extent absorbed by sexual symbolism, as is commonly thought of him.

Sexual dreams can be called not only about how people have sex. Often, they show how we perceive others and how, in our understanding, they think about us. To create a framework of interpretation of sexual dreams, important identification - who is present in his sleep next to you, and what were your feelings to the test in a dream experience.

Some dreams are just a romantic. A guy and a girl meet and enjoy each other's company. Typically, the script assumes that the partner is attractive, and the atmosphere - pleasant. In this case, the taboo is broken, except that the dreamer is in bed too quickly. Often, the dreamer did everything under the influence of attraction to a particular person. Freud's theory of wish-fulfillment is ample explanation for this.

Other dreams are beyond the scope of existing taboos in our minds. These include dreams involving a sexual plot, which the dreamer in real life would have considered unacceptable. Dreams of this nature may cause severe anxiety; you can wake up in a dream after experiencing rape, infidelity, loss of virginity. Such dreams have to analyze in detail.

An important first step - determining the cause of discomfort. Who was it - a friend, colleague, boss; he was older or younger than you? You were loving relationship, or you had to have sex under duress, fraud? This took place in public, or in some other place? Who's who coerced into sex? Perhaps the partner or the partner of the dream were like your friends? Often the elements of sexual dreams are the relations of representation and substitution.

A number of dreams is a reflection of what we are in relation to the taboo occupy a dual position. In any ban is something exciting. In some cases, we express real disappointment disliked by our sex life. In the other one went beyond our taboos, and we respond to this perception of the man as received from us a favor, which he does not deserve.

In these cases, dreams require attention and research. Having studied before we perceive as unacceptable and disgusting, you can discover new aspects of their own nature and the surrounding bonds, not previously noticed by. And, perhaps most importantly - you will receive additional information about the different facets of his personality, manifested in these relations.